how deep is your seoul

A quick hiatus in Seoul sparked a fun-fact about couple pairing, but first some photos 😉

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Apparently, in South Korea, blood type is a big deal.

It doesn’t just deliver oxygen to the rest of your body—it determines your personality. People in South Korea are automatically stereotyped thanks to their blood type. While this belief originated in Japan, it has taken a firm hold in South Korean culture, and it might even make a difference in who marries whom.

There are positive and negative traits assigned to each blood type:

People with Type A are thought to be conservative and punctual, but they can be also obsessive, uptight, and a bit introverted. However, they think that cheating on their romantic partners is wrong and will thus be extremely loyal.

People with Type B are a totally different story. While they have some good traits like creativity and passion, they’re also willing to cheat on their partners, lazy, and impatient. There’s even a South Korean movie called My Boyfriend is Type B, a romantic comedy about a Type A girl who falls for a Type B boy and has to deal with his impulsive nature.

As for Type AB, they’re supposed to be cool and under control, but they can be elitist, harsh, and judgmental.

Type O means a person is ambitious and athletic. They want big things in life, and nothing is going to stand in their way. On the flip side, they’re pompous and egotistical, but once they decide to commit to a relationship, they’re generally pretty loyal.

So if you ever visit South Korea, you might want to figure out your blood type first—someone is going to ask eventually.

A special type of kindness

We all like “real” people.
Genuine people who have no need for pretense.
But to become one of them you must first practice kindness toward yourself.
Here’s why you should be kind to yourself.
It causes you to be more open to other people.
Kindness towards yourself gives you the confidence to open your real self to others.
But what does “be kind to yourself” actually mean?
It means you stop saying things to yourself that you wouldn’t say to a good friend.
It means you build yourself up even after you make mistakes.
It means you take time to appreciate what you like about your appearance when looking in the mirror.
It means laughing at your mistakes and loving yourself anyway.
This is a special sort of kindness.
 Of all the people you interact with in your life, there’s one person you have the most power to influence.
It’s yourself.
Be careful not to abuse that power.
Use it for good.
Kindness toward yourself gives you the confidence to come out of your shell.
As your confidence goes up, you will naturally allow others to see the real you.
The version of you who has no need to hide.
This is the most attractive version of you.
Because nothing dispels loneliness more than interacting with a person like that.
A person who is real.
Be that person.
It’s who you were meant to be.

portrait | aidan

There’s something about being young that we must not ever forget, as Samuel Ullman puts it best:

“Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.”

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portrait | daria

The heart itself cannot break, for its very nature is soft and open. What breaks open when we see things as they are is the protective shell of ego identity we have built around ourselves in order to avoid feeling pain. When the heart breaks out of this shell, we feel quite raw and vulnerable. Yet that is also the beginning of feeling real compassion for ourselves and others.

-John Welwood

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portrait | cirque noir

“Burlesque troupes have enjoyed a resurgence of popularity in recent years, vamping old-style dance reviews into something even bawdier and gaudier. Now San Francisco dance company Cirque Noir is adding a twist [of] anti-gravity… “

– SFGate

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Cirque Noir @
DanceGround Keriac
1805 Divisadero Street, San Francisco.

alcatraz and ai weiwei (艾未未)

“The misconception of totalitarianism is that freedom can be imprisoned. This is not the case. When you constrain freedom, freedom will take flight and land on a windowsill.”
— Ai Weiwei

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Ai Weiwei is a Beijing-based contemporary artist and activist, whose work actively speaks out against political activity and controversies. He is internationally renowned for work that defies the distinction between art and activism.

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There was an anticipated excitement in viewing his new exhibition on Alcatraz, especially after reading and seeing so many of his large-scale works. All of the new works for this exhibition were created specifically for Alcatraz. As noted on For-Site Foundation’s site: “Ai responds to the island’s layered legacy as a 19th-century military fortress, a notorious federal penitentiary, a site of Native American heritage and protest, and now one of America’s most visited national parks.”

6These large-scale Lego portraits, part of the Trace exhibit, portrayed 175 prisoners of conscience, a term coined for any person who is physically restrained, by imprisonment or otherwise, from expressing, in any form of words or symbols, any opinion which he honestly holds and which does not advocate or condone personal violence. 
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Chen Guangcheng is a Chinese civil rights activist, often described as a “barefoot lawyer,” who worked on human rights issues in rural areas of the People’s Republic of China. Blind from an early age and self-taught in the law, Chen advocated for women’s rights, land rights, and the welfare of the poor. He is best known for accusing people of abuses in official family-planning practices, often involving claims of violence and forced abortions.

9 10 11 12Gedhun Choekyi Nyima was just 6 years old when he was recognized by His Holiness the Dalai Lama as the 11th Panchen Lama, one of Tibet’s most important religious leaders. Just after Gedhun Choekyi Nyima and his family were taken into custody by the Chinese authorities and he has not been seen since.
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“From the New Industries Building’s lower gun gallery, where armed guards once monitored prisoners at work, visitors peer through cracked and rusted windows to glimpse an enormous metal wing on the floor below, called Refraction. Its design is based on close observation of the structure of real birds’ wings, but in place of feathers, the artwork bristles with reflective panels originally used on solar cookers in Tibet, a region that has long struggled under Chinese rule.

This piece uses imagery of flight to evoke the tension between freedom — be it physical, political, or creative — and confinement. The sculpture’s enormous bulk (it weighs more than five tons) and constrained position on the lower floor keep it earthbound, but one might imagine its array of solar panels silently mustering energy, preparing for takeoff.

By requiring visitors to view the work from the gun gallery, the installation implicates visitors in a complex structure of power and control. Following in the footsteps of prison guards, visitors are placed in a position of authority, and yet the narrowness of the space creates a visceral feeling of restriction.” – For-Site Foundation

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In the cell block, one section of the prison the National Park Service did not initially offer Ai for his exhibition but after insisting for access, the NPS finally agreed.

When you enter the tiny cells where, you can’t even fully extend your arms between the walls. You then sit on single metal stool at the center of the tiny space. There is the voice of Martin Luther King Jr. giving his “Beyond Vietnam” speech. You can’t help but see how Ai Weiwei melded the dramatic setting of Alcatraz with his art. The cell itself was tiny and was hard to imagine not going crazy in such a space, and then you hear the  the music or poetry of dissident artists past or present as you go from one jail cell to the next.

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It was a revelation to get new perspectives on Alcatraz and to contemplate questions about freedom of expression and human rights that resonate far beyond this particular place.

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One of his most heart-touching projects was the citizen’s investigation on the Sichuan earthquake casualties.

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“Ten days after a 8.0-magnitude earthquake took place in Sichuan province on 12 May 2008, Ai Weiwei led a team to survey and film the post-quake conditions in various disaster zones. In response to the government’s lack of transparency in revealing names of students who perished in the earthquake due to substandard school campus constructions, Ai recruited volunteers online and launched a “Citizens’ Investigation” to compile names and information of the student victims. On 20 March 2009, he posted a blog titled “Citizens’ Investigation” and wrote: “To remember the departed, to show concern for life, to take responsibility, and for the potential happiness of the survivors, we are initiating a “Citizens’ Investigation.” We will seek out the names of each departed child, and we will remember them.”

As of 14 April 2009, the list had accumulated 5,385 names and Ai published the collected names as well as numerous articles documenting the investigation on his blog which was shut down by Chinese authorities in May 2009. He also posted his list of names of schoolchildren who died on the wall of his office at FAKE Design in Beijing.

Ai suffered headaches and claimed he had difficulty concentrating on his work since returning from Chengdu in August 2009, where he was beaten by the police for trying to testify for Tan Zuoren, a fellow investigator of the shoddy construction and student casualties in the earthquake. On 14 September 2009, Ai was diagnosed to be suffering internal bleeding in a hospital in Munich, Germany, and the doctor arranged for emergency brain surgery. The cerebral hemorrhage is believed to be linked to the police attack.

According to the Financial Times, in an attempt to force Ai to leave the country, two accounts used by him had been hacked in a sophisticated attack on Google in China dubbed Operation Aurora, their contents read and copied; his bank accounts were investigated by state security agents who claimed he was under investigation for “unspecified suspected crimes”.

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It is so easy to do nothing in the face of something wrong and it is truly an inspiration to see someone like Ai Weiwei, with so much courage, compassion and perseverance to keep fighting for what should be justifiably right.

As a friend recently mentioned, “We are distracted, overworked, overstressed and focused on chasing $$$, power, instant gratification, roofs over our heads, the basics, the easy, the complicated, the race to the top and so on. Running in our own personal hamster wheels with one end in sight… trust [your] gut… [and start] letting go of the fears that have been implanted by a dissonant society… We are at a unique place in time where we have a choice.
We have been presented with one option up to this point in our “history” and have continued to accept it. We have been convinced there is no other way and anything moving towards real change will be squashed. We have been implanted with fear and distrust. We have allowed responsibility to remain in hands outside of our own. We are told of freedoms but are endangered when we truly use them. This all will change when we chose it is time. The time is inevitable and we will get there together. It is scary and hard to imagine possible because we are so entrenched and dependent on our current ways. We will find an alternative together. It is our only true choice. It is within our hearts. It is within our spirit. No matter our differences.. no matter our distance. We are all one. We are all connected and there is no end.”

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You can also check out the documentary Ai Weiwei: Never Sorry to find out more about Ai Weiwei and his work.

All the photos above were taken personally using my phone 🙂
All rights reserved.

holiday rush

It’s been absolutely hectic with the holidays coming up and it doesn’t help that the sun sleeps much earlier now, although some of the sunsets have been amazing lately.

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We just wanted all of our clients and those inquiring to know it may take a little longer for us to send a reply back. We’ve had back-to-back holiday portrait sessions and other events going on that we haven’t had much of a chance to sit down in general.

If you’re inquiring about portrait sessions (ie. baby, newborn, or engagements) for the remainder of this year, we are entirely booked up. We are taking portrait bookings for 2015 so please reach out and we can provide more information.

If you’re inquiring about weddings for 2015, we are already booked up for the months of August and September.

We send our love out to all and happy holidays!

featured | borrowed and blue | molly + nate

It’s Friday and we can’t be more than overjoyed that Borrowed and Blue has featured Molly and Nate’s spring pig roast wedding from last year!
The details from their wedding last year was completely swoon worthy and we’re so happy to have been apart of their special day!
Cheers to Molly and Nate again!

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